I am sitting on a chair outside a shopping mall. I see people - some well dressed, others not so - moving in and out of the mall. I hear them talking, laughing, walking in silence. One thing that I have grown up doing is observing people.
And I see a pregnant lady walking towards me, she sits on the chair and makes a call to her friend. "There is nothing in this whole goddamn city that I can wear and look nice," she says. I, who was just going through my Facebook wall with posts with headlines like 'From Blake Lively To Kareena Kapoor, we bring you the best of pregnancy style, get confused.' Is it really the case? Sadly, it is. At least in India.
Almost a week later I read that Sonia Rykiel, the French fashion designer has died. Rykiel was not just a fashion designer. She was a fashion designer who changed the rules of the game.
When Rykiel was carrying her second child, she could barely find maternity clothing that she would like. All she saw was clothes that screamed shame and apology. So Rykiel designed her own outfit. Needless to say, it was not even remotely apologetic.
“I wanted to show the world how happy I was,” she said. “My mother-in-law was scandalized, but my friends asked how they could find one like it.”
So, there you go. Someone simply needs to start it. Others will follow suit, sooner or later. May Rykiel's soul rest in peace. And may, we, as a generation, too realise that it is time we stop hiding and come out in the open and celebrate, wearing good clothes, of course.
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And I see a pregnant lady walking towards me, she sits on the chair and makes a call to her friend. "There is nothing in this whole goddamn city that I can wear and look nice," she says. I, who was just going through my Facebook wall with posts with headlines like 'From Blake Lively To Kareena Kapoor, we bring you the best of pregnancy style, get confused.' Is it really the case? Sadly, it is. At least in India.
Almost a week later I read that Sonia Rykiel, the French fashion designer has died. Rykiel was not just a fashion designer. She was a fashion designer who changed the rules of the game.
When Rykiel was carrying her second child, she could barely find maternity clothing that she would like. All she saw was clothes that screamed shame and apology. So Rykiel designed her own outfit. Needless to say, it was not even remotely apologetic.
“I wanted to show the world how happy I was,” she said. “My mother-in-law was scandalized, but my friends asked how they could find one like it.”
So, there you go. Someone simply needs to start it. Others will follow suit, sooner or later. May Rykiel's soul rest in peace. And may, we, as a generation, too realise that it is time we stop hiding and come out in the open and celebrate, wearing good clothes, of course.
Please follow me on GFC and Facebook and Instagram if you like reading the blog.
gorgeous dress dear!! :)
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I was so devastated when I heard the news about Sonya. She was such an icon and inspiration. You really nicely put a tribute for her in this blog post and, yes, I completely agree that we should stop hiding and celebrate! :)
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She truly was an icon. Beautiful post, Rupa. I love the stylish look on you. Happy new week, girl.
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People observing is one of my hobbies too. So inersting. Sometimes i wish i could read the mine of the people. Are they hAPPY or have problems???
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Wow! You look so pretty <3
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Fantastic post...n u look cute.
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Observing is really nice. Whenever we go for a drink somewhere, I choose the seat from where I can watch others :)
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Amazing outfit!
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i guess it's true, the first person to start something new is always looked on as weird but then until someone does it, no one would. I like this whole story.
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I love the photos. Great post!
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I like your style :) I following your blog on GFC #361. I waiting in my blog follow back :)
ReplyDeleteActually, this is what I love to do. Just sit there and observe people. You know you can learn a lot about the passerby in that circumstance :)
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Have a beautiful day, Rupa.
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Cute color combo! x
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